Every time you pull out your wallet to spend money your Inner Voice screams in your ear that you don’t deserve it….telling you you’re not worthy.
It’s ingrained into you and part of your Money DNA.
Understanding your Money DNA and your own unique natural wiring are the pieces of the puzzle that will allow you to reset your relationship with money.
You’re wracked with guilt when spending money on anything that isn’t absolutely essential,
whether it’s yours or comes from your business bank account.
You believe any type of ‘erratic’ spending is irresponsible and can only lead to trouble.
Wasting money is a sin and should be punished.
Your inner critic has created a paranoia around money that’s hard to push aside and can sometimes lead to you making emotionally charged decisions rather than ones based on fact and real information.
It’s that same inner critic that has you believing you can’t possibly enjoy having money when there are people out there who have none.
The thought of others not having enough whilst you live an abundant life is abhorrent to you so you find it hard to make any kind of investment in yourself as you simply don’t believe you’ve earned it.
Together we’ll shine a spotlight on them and extinguish them once and for all.
Repeat daily and pin to a place where it will be a constant reminder….
I am worthy to keep and receive money
And I get to decide my own worth
Money is the world’s exchange system and I now accept it as it is
I allow money to flow in and out of my life without resistance
Money is safe in my hands and I can spend it how I choose
It’s time to redesign the blueprint of your subconscious beliefs and visualize a very different space. Imagine your mind as a blank canvas telling a brand new story…
A story which allows you to:
And that starts with reframing your belief system around your Wealth Block….the one that’s rooted in your mindset.
Because GUILT leaves you feeling unworthy of money which will in turn repel your ability to manifest a life of affluent abundance.
Think of money as a tool. One that can be used to effect that positive change within your reality.
Money is NOT the root of all evil. It can be used as a force for good and we’re all worthy of financial abundance.
The way you subconsciously think about receiving, spending, saving and withdrawing money is a powerful thing because your beliefs drive your behavior.
But you have the power to rewrite your story and move beyond intention and create real, lasting change.
But where does your money mindset originate from?
It usually stems from our childhood in those formative years when we were first introduced to the concept of money.
So many of our limiting beliefs are influenced by our upbringing and our surrounding environment.
Maybe the phrase “Money doesn’t grow on trees!” was a common one in your house.
Or perhaps it was more like the tale of Oliver Twist where asking for more got the response of “Who do you think you are to ask for more?”
Hear these often enough and they start to become part of your subconscious mindset around money.
So how do we change this and reprogram our minds?
Can I get scientific for a moment?
Scientists believe that your subconscious mind controls 95 percent of your life. That’s huge. It means only 5% of the decisions we make happen consciously, which is why it’s so important we have some understanding over the inner workings of our subconscious mind.
Our daily routine of getting up, starting work, eating, drinking and sleeping is a habit. One that’s so well-formed we don’t even realize we’re doing it.
Our subconscious is a hard drive of information which can be recalled at any point and used over and over again.
BUT…it’s not just your daily routine being stored it’s everything. Every thought you’ve ever had, positive or negative, things you’ve experienced, dreams, memories, and of course those pesky limiting beliefs around money.
What we’re about to do is reset your hard drive and erase all that harmful data that’s become like a virus clouding your thoughts and emotions, dictating your every move and influencing your judgment without you even knowing.
Let me introduce you to….Your Personal Path to Affluent Abundance
STEP 01: IDENTIFY
First things first, we need to identify those limiting beliefs you have around money.
Each and every one of them. Don’t hold back.
Be honest with yourself and list out each thought you’ve ever had around money.
Try to remember when you first had that thought and who instigated it.
Did you hear your parents arguing about money from a young age?
Were your friends always complaining about how little pocket money they were given and how unfair it was?
Maybe you were the youngest child and had to wear hand-me-downs because money was tight?
All of these are valid thoughts and help to feed those money mindset monkeys.
The only way you can distance yourself from your negative beliefs around money, and eventually banish them completely, is by first identifying each and every one.
STEP 02: CHALLENGE
Now you’ve identified your limiting beliefs, it’s time to challenge them. Writing a list is great but on its own it won’t be effective.
Every time a negative money thought enters your mind, challenge the assumption you’ve just made and ask yourself for supporting evidence.
What evidence exists to support that negative thought?
Allow yourself to consider that thought from different angles with a fresh perspective.
Clear your mind and really challenge yourself to think differently.
STEP 03: DEVELOP
The way you talk to yourself has a massive effect on your subconscious mind. Negative inner monologues have a negative affect on how we think and feel so it’s time to flick the switch.
And develop some positive inner monologues around money.
If you’ve ever had one of those days where you’ve felt grumpy all day muttering and mumbling under your breath then you’ll know what I mean.
Because you’ve told yourself you’re in a bad mood it affects everything you do that day.
This is no different.
Developing your ability around positive affirmations and positive self-talk will make all the difference to how you deal with your wealth blocks and money concerns.
Here’s a couple of examples:
Negative: I will never have enough money. Positive: I can make as much money as I want.
Negative: I don’t get paid enough. Positive: My income exceeds my expenses.
STEP 04: PROTECT
And finally, protect your new and positive thoughts from the negative self-destructive ones.
Just like anything new it takes time for this to become the ‘new norm’ and you need to sustain your positivity over a lasting period of time.
Jump on any negative money thoughts that enter your mind.
Be protective like a lioness with her cub.
Nurture your new positive thoughts and put a shield between you and negativity.
Bottom line, you can reset your hard drive at any time, it’s never too late to get started.
You’re the one in control of your own mind, nobody else, so you get to decide what you let in and what you don’t.
I have climbed from the bottom to the top,
created my dream life, and can teach you how to do it too.
I’m a podcast host, a best-selling author, international speaker, and a successful entrepreneur. I’ve been featured in Forbes and Entrepreneur magazines, and appeared on FOX, CNN, and CBS
Yet, I know what it’s like to be stuck and unhappy too.
That used to be me. I even know what it’s like to hit such a rough patch in life that I once contemplated suicide because I couldn’t envision my life being worth living anymore.
A life-shattering trauma at the age of 20, a late diagnosis of Asperger’s Syndrome, and amassing a great deal of wealth and then losing it all took its toll.
When I tell you, I’ve climbed from the bottom to the top, I really mean it.
I’ve discovered that financial freedom is a necessary steppingstone to create a truly abundant purpose-driven life. This is an important component of my teachings.
BUT true abundance is being rich AND having time freedom AND wonderful relationships AND great health AND joyful life experiences.
I teach people how to achieve that.
This is just the start of our journey together and I can’t wait to help set you free and see you fly.
Then make space in your diary and join me on….
THE AFFLUENT ABUNDANCE MASTERCLASS
The 3 Step Action Plan to Beating Your #1 Wealth Blocker GUILT!
This is your key to finally resetting your relationship with money.
I’ll be revealing three little known secrets to help you:
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