It goes deeper than you think!
A huge disconnect for most people, in creating success for themselves, is that they forget to communicate exactly what it is that they want! This happens on a macro level (people they work/live with) but it also happens on an internal levels as well. What do I mean? All will be revealed shortly…
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OK so what do I mean when I say that people forget to communicate their ideas/wants/desires etc…? I know it might seem obvious, but there is more nuance here than you might think.
I often talk about alignment, and I even created my Flow Funnel (below) to help illustrate what I mean by that. You see, in order to create anything for ourselves – anything at all – we must have alignment between our inner and outer world.
Regular readers here will be sick of me saying it by now, but so be it: if you are not aligned with your desired outcome, on every level, you won’t get it. Now you might get some version of it by chance, but if you want something specific for yourself – you have to be 100% in alignment with it.
I also talk a lot about how God/the universe wants to give you what you want. It has all possible outcomes for you, bound up in it like a library. If you know which ‘book of life’ you want, you can look it up, go find it and take it. You need to understand the rules of alignment and vibration first though. And herein lies the problem.
A lot of people forget (or simply don’t know how) to communicate what they want to the universe.
Now this could be through not taking action. That’s one way, for sure, to not communicate that you want something. But I’m talking before that even. If you have a desire, in your head – before you can start seeing things show up for you, to talk you in that direction: you need to communicate them properly.
A huge component of this is being specific. As I’ve spoken about before in previous blogs, so many people don’t feel called to anything. They don’t have a specific want or desire that is so clear to them, that they can’t do anything else. There are ways for you to discover this, if this is you, and I definitely encourage you to do so BUT…don’t beat yourself up over it.
Something I’m big on is people not letting the lofty goals that they have, overwhelm them and keep them from taking action. This is the opposite of what a goal or ‘calling’ should do. This is why I speak a lot about micro-shifting (baby steps) and breaking things down.
If you don’t have that singular vision for yourself however, you can still be driven by purpose and find alignment in your life.
More on the specifics of that another time, but suffice it to say: don’t give up if this is you!
A big reason why people get caught up in blame and shame around ‘failure’ is because they don’t understand, or forget to communicate what they want with their inner self. We can say our goals out loud all day, but without a deep understanding of who we are and how we operate: ain’t nothing gonna happen.
Likewise: we can do all of the internal work! We can spend days on end, astrally projecting ourselves to the surface of Mars in order to commune with inter-dimensional beings, in order to bring enlightenment back to our consciousness (for example). If we don’t know how to communicate that enlightenment with the rest of the world however, what good is it?
My advice to you all is to find that way to communicate with yourself in a wholistic way.
Understand how you work at an inner level. Also accept and own the fact that everything you’ve experienced in your life, you have wanted (on some level) and created for yourself.
You can find lots of free, useful tools here: Free Resources. These will help guide you on how to really start connecting your inner and outer worlds.
Listen to yourself and your body, understand what you need in order to be at your fullest and honour where you’re at. A big part of honouring where you’re at is accepting that your environment doesn’t lie. If you want to know what internal programming you’re running on currently: look around! Identify the patterns that you see and do the work to understand why it is you’ve been playing them out.
There’s a reason why 90% of all lottery winners end up back where they started within 5 years – because they weren’t already millionaires with their inner game. The programming they were working on was not aligned with what it is to be a millionaire, and so the patterns they play out inevitably take them back to the life they always lead.
If you want to get to a new life, start by identifying how to live as that person now!
There is much more to this of course, and it can take months, years or even decades to truly know and understand yourself. Be gentle, don’t place expectations on yourself or the process, and just make a start.
Don’t forget to communicate what you want to others!
The other aspect of this is your outward communication. As any of you who work with others will know: if you can’t communicate your ideas clearly to them, they can’t execute what you want. At least not with any degree of precision.
Really these relationships are just reflections of the one we have with ourselves. So we should always start with the inner work. As I’m saying more and more these days though: we need to know when to Stop Meditating! There’s a point at which you have to hand off from the inner to the outer world, avoiding being trapped in a perpetual planning loop.
Communicating what you want is really about the disruption of patterns. Cutting through your existing programming, in order to see different results in your outer world.
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