We can only experience what we are a vibrational match for
Hey guys, welcome to this blog on breaking free of limiting identities. I wanted to share this with you today as kind of a ‘hack’ of sorts, that might just be the final piece of the puzzle for some of you, in manifesting your intentions.
Until we can break free of the addiction to our existing identity and personality, and start to shift how we show up; we will continue to experience the same people, places and things that we always have.
We can only experience what we are a vibrational match for, right? So when we have an intention, let’s call it “Intention B”: intention B can not show up in the life of person A. This is because the belief systems and experiences of person A, are completely disassociated from the outcome of intention B. Make sense?
So, for example; if you grew up in a household where the story around money was one of lack (“waste not, want not” etc…) then as you grew up, your beliefs around what was possible for you financially would remain similarly limited. Even if your experiences galvanised you into being determined that your life would not be the same; without changing the identity hewn from that upbringing, you will not get there. It’s physically impossible because you don’t live in a world where it is possible!
You can do all the work of setting your intentions, focussing on them, connecting energetically, praying etc… You can experience the outcomes you desire metaphysically all day long if you want to. If you do so as person A, intention B will not come to you.
A personal anecdote around this:
For the longest time, I kept having the same relationships over and over again. It wasn’t until I disconnected from being the person who did that, that I was then able to step into something new and break those loops. I had to become person B, in order to experience intention B.
Now I know this all sounds quite glib. “If you want to be rich, just turn yourself into somebody who already is rich.” Yeah right, I get it. You need the practical tools in order to be able to do that.
This is where Beyond Intention comes in. This program was built around my own need to let go of victim narratives and ego-driven stories, in order to step into the abundant life that I desired. I had to break free of the addiction to the story of being the guy who “made it through this” or “overcame that” and really start making choices that disrupted those patterns. I had to break from being that person and step into a new state of being, a new personality, and connect with the experiences that I chose.
So…
Start following though on your inner-game work! All the preyer, affirmations, visualisations and any other meditative work that you’re doing, with consciously made choices that correlate with who you want to be.
As you encounter situations and people on your journey that present you with choices, start to ask yourself as you decide: “is this a choice that the version me who experiences my new intention would make? Is this how I want to show up in the world? Keep chipping away and disrupting the patterns of your life, following through physically with the work that you have been doing spiritually and mentally.
Ask yourself: “Is my identity more important than this intention?”
That’s all for today. If you have any questions around this blog, please drop them in the comments below and I will get back to you with an answer.
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